Archive for June, 2007

MORAL

Thursday, June 28th, 2007

                 One day a farmer’s donkey fell down into a
                 well.  The animal cried piteously for hours as
                 the farmer tried to figure out what to do.

                Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the
                well needed to be covered up anyway;



  it just wasn’t worth it to retrieve the donkey.

He invited all his neighbors to come over and
help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began
to shovel dirt into the well.  At first, the
donkey realized what was happening and cried
horribly.  Then, to everyone’s amazement he
quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally
looked down the well.  He was astonished at what
he saw.  With each shovel of dirt that hit his
back, the donkey was doing something amazing.
He would shake it off and take a step up.

As the farmer’s neighbors continued to shovel
dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it
off and take a step up.

Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey
stepped up over the edge of the well and
happily trotted off!

Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds
of dirt.  The trick to getting out of the well
is to shake it off and take a step up.  Each of
our troubles is a steppingstone.  We can get out
of the deepest wells just by not stopping,
never giving up!  Shake it off and take a step up.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.

Free your mind from worries - Most never happen.

Live simply and appreciate what you have. 

 


Give more.

Expect less.

 



NOW …………

 


Enough of that crap . … The donkey later came back,

 



and bit the farmer who had tried to bury him. 

 



The gash from the bite got  infected and

 



the farmer eventually died in agony from septic shock.

 

MORAL FROM TODAY’S LESSON:

When you do something wrong, and try to cover
your ass, it always comes back to bite you

Jealous??

Monday, June 25th, 2007

When you first connected with your partner and looked into their eyes, it felt like he or she was the only person in the room. As you get deeper into your relationship and call yourselves a couple, the realization hits you: You and your partner are not alone on this planet

When we are in a committed relationship, we assume the connection we have with each other will be strong enough to fend off outside threats. In some ways, this you-belong-to-me-and-I-belong-to-you mentality is sweet; it’s the stuff of pop songs and poetry. But sometimes the intensity of that connection is too strong.

If you’ve got strong feelings of jealousy, it’s probably a sign that you don’t have enough trust in your partner that he or she is being faithful to you.

You may feel insecure about your self-worth. In these cases, either you’ve been raised to believe, or some part of your inner self feels, that you just don’t measure up. Because you don’t love yourself, you can’t believe that others would love you, so you live in fear that your partner’s "true" feelings will be revealed and she will leave

You and your partner haven’t yet figured out how to establish safe boundaries within the relationship. Having a tight bond is about building walls around your love with windows that allow others to be part of it — not doors where competing lovers can walk right in and disrupt your home. Because you don’t know what’s permissible within the relationship and what’s not, you’re constantly on your toes.

Knowing the factors that lead to jealousy is an important first step to getting things fixed.Put your focus on building trust. If you’ve got some growing up to do, therapy may help. Both of you have to learn how to set boundaries in the relationship. That requires respecting your mate’s definition of limits of outside relationships from the start.
Over time, as trust builds, you and your partner can redefine what feels safe for the relationship. After all, when you’ve got a great relationship, you want to share it with the world.

Without limits

Thursday, June 21st, 2007

This is our story, of how we came to be as we now are.

You can now see we were once as you exist, and you may think we have been destroyed- but we cannot be.

Our essence will live on for all-time.

The same is true for those such as you.

You may think that we are above you, yet this is untrue in the great scheme. T

hroughout your lifetime many have told you that although the world is accessible to you, you are within limits;

there are things you cannot do; experiences you cannot have- this is all an illusion.

They say you may jump, yet you cannot touch the stars;

that you can see, yet there is much that is invisible to you;

that you can touch yet you cannot encompass the mysteries of the universe in your hand and marvel… marvel at them… this which they tell you- it is an illusion.

For there are no borders, no boundaries, no constraints- there is nothing inaccessible… We are all… without limits.

Live as if your were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.

To…

Sunday, June 17th, 2007

If I don’t say this now I will surely break
As I’m leaving the one I want to take
Forgive the urgency but hurry up and wait
My heart has started to separate

There now, steady love, so few come and don’t go
Will you won’t you, be the one I always know
When I’m losing my control, the city spins around
You’re the only one who knows, you slow it down

If ever there was a doubt
My love she leans into me
This most assuredly counts
She says most assuredly

It’s always have and never hold
You’ve begun to feel like home
What’s mine is yours to leave or take
What’s mine is yours to make your own

Be my baby..

I’ll look after you